| |   This is something that all of us deal with at one time or another...dating...or that feeling other people out, do they have interest in me type o' stuff...my question to you is...i'm gonna give you a couple case scenarios that i have experienced/seen/know to be true/that happen, etc...have you prepared yourself? ok...let's go!...what would you do if you have a good friend whom you consider yourself to be close with, and you, having some feelings for this person, such so that you would like to see whether they see more to your relationship than just remaining friends, ask them out, and they say well sorry but my parents won't approve of YOU (aka, what you look like on the outside) or some other very inadequate excuse that has some kind of "extentuating circumstances" beyond your control...would you a) drop this person like a sack of hot potatoes? b) remain friends but attempt to keep the distance mentally and have restraints on how close you can grow/trust them or c) not have a problem with that and keep moving forward?
i know this happens at school/orgranizations/social gatherings etc., but what if it happens at church? what would you do then? talk to someone that person is close to see what the deal is or so meone that they look up to as a spiritual authority? what do you see it as? an issue of pride (i'm better than you, so i wouldn't date you) or could it be thought of as simply a personal preference? i'm just curious to hear what folks think...thanks for reading...it's been a while since i last updated, so i just want to hear your thoughts
cintron
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| | Posted 6/11/2009 10:07 AM - 8 Views - 4 eProps - 2 comments
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